This is such a smart response because you never know what's going to happen if you don't know them and go to a private place for the first time.

So you travel from London to LA just to try white people Mexican food

I travel all over the world man.

And just sit down and chill that will probably be mine or going to the movies or to a skate park

Now someone asked me to go to the park and chill with some, I don't know, I think it was beer or I don't know what it was on and I felt insulted. It must be my age. The cinema when I was younger, yeah. but when they asked me to go to the park I was in no...

The part chill like if I go to a park at least do like a picnic I'm not gonna go sit down at a part the free what it look like

OK no personally for me in the same way if I got a sound like a part date I would be a bit offended and also coffee dates I just feel like they're so boring the only way I would go to like a pro day is it they had a whole picnic planned

I would say this is the most traditional way of going to a date without getting murdered or anything.

Hey Bree, thank you, that's just like me. Park? No. Coffee date? No, definitely no. Unless it's a business meeting, business collaboration, we're going to have one pound copper coffee on a date. romantic. No.

don't get me wrong this is about first date remember maybe people are forgetting this is a this is a first date for someone that's become a boyfriend someone that you've been seeing for months we can catch up over a cup of tea a cup of coffee no problem no pop

Hey Camilla, are you saying going to the park is the most traditional way to go on a date and it's safe? Because here in the UK a girl got killed walking through the park. The park is a place where they can do damage to you before anybody rescues you, he would have harmed.

As I was saying Camilla, for something safe you need a crowded place. You need a restaurant, you need a bar, you need a cafe, you need somewhere with other people around. That's what safety is to me anyway.

Yeah all right I thought about it for a few days well day and I really think the part is a good thing because it bugs and stuff and I actually hate bugs yes

Girl McDonald's girl what the fuck

I'd rather go to McDonald's like if you're not gonna take me to McDonald's then don't even ask me out.

I totally agree with you, maybe that's what normal people do.

OK I disagree I don't think a lot of us are trying to use you for your money at all for just trying to see if there's a connection there and if you're boring or not and if you're just like cheap in general so I think he said it was kind of invalid

No you're wrong you can have a great connection with somebody over a cuppa coffee and a walk in the park just because you don't do all these extravagant things on the first date doesn't mean there's no connection and doesn't mean the guy is boring a lot of women just because you don't doesn't mean a lot of women don't use people for their money

So basically what you want is the other person to put all the effort, time and money into this.

This doesn't make any sense to me, like if so, if that's the case, then why would you ever want to go on a date.

I think this answer is just more realistic compared to all the other crazy stuff people is replying here.