Some people may not like this at all, but, and I'm sorry in advance, but what's helped me personally, keyword personally, is that I did Myers-Briggs tests, found out what my Myers-Briggs is, and just went from there on what works best for people of my thought, you know, way of thinking. And I've learned a lot of steps and tools on how to, you know, achieve success, so I suggest you try that. And I'm sorry if it doesn't work.