um, probably a man, cause, well like, I'm just saying this cause I'm a man, but I'd be like, I've met men, I've, I've, I've seen men alone before, and they've just been like, hey, like that's all they do, like they would just walk by me and go like, hey, how's it going, there's like a small chance that he would like rape me or some shit, but I'm not choosing a bear over that