My, uh, my ex cheated on me with my best friend, um, and I've been debating whether or not giving her a second chance. What do you guys think?

The fact of the matter is it comes down to the circumstance ah Intention redemption and is she truly sorry for what she did and That's something only you and her could work out privately behind closed doors

In my particular situation, I have forgiven both of them. Will I ever forget? I will not. Has it, has it, um, diminished my innate trust in people as a whole in general? Yes, it has.

But that being said, yeah. I am best friends with both of my exes who shattered my heart and, you know, effectively destroyed my life for years, literal years afterwards.

Time heals all, um, and so, you know, here we are. I'm older now, and like I said, uh, I am just as close, if not closer to them, um, in a weird sense of the way that I was when we were dating.

Yeah, uh, no that's a no, uh It doesn't end well. Yeah, it's just I'm not like square head, you know, but I've been there. Uh I think it speaks a lot of maturity and commitment and trust