And some people are redefining that and bringing more of a modern take on marriage where you know They're taking away the I own you ownership part of it to like I accept you and I'm committed to it

I would say both man and woman would be benefited especially when marriage is done right. They would benefit from shared resources, being able to tackle life together, a full commitment to one person. No.

And it's a sad story. Sad story not because the marriage, the sanctity of marriage or the marriage itself is getting affected and getting outdated, but sad because women are suffering because of this.

And yes, I said women because women are really really suffering I can witness that I can see that all around me and Men are not suffering as much let me tell you that yeah

A little bit of suffering for men is there, but women, my goodness, they're suffering like anything. We've got to fucking work something out because marriage is a good thing. It's getting outdated.

Yeah, I was just saying, marriage is a good thing, and it's sad that it's getting outdated. It shouldn't be outdated. We've got to preserve it for future generations.

We live in a world now we don't survive in it. We have a lot more luxuries. Our life expectancy has changed. The way that we go about survival, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our lives, the way we define our

When we conceptualize marriage now, we can't necessarily correlate with it because the idea of it just doesn't match the opportunities that we have now and that's both men and women.

This goes back to choices and goes back to accessibility of these choices. Everything that we've ever wanted is a lot more accessible than it ever was. Back then, we had to fight less for it.

For example, we say things like the grass is greener on the other side. Well, that's just think about how we only have one side to look at before. Now we got a bunch of sides to look at. Everybody's grass green.

We live in an age of consumerism. Long-term relationships are not survivable in an economy in a world like ours simply because there's something new coming out tomorrow, something different tomorrow.

So in essence marriage is not even really about what you can live with Marriage more these days is what are you willing to live without? That wasn't how it was when that wasn't what that was

I agree with you as far as the world being different and because of life expectancy, like people doing, you know, not feeling like they have to get married, like that's not the end all be all, but I disagree with you too. Like I agree and disagree.

Speaking about survival, consumerism, opportunities, all things of which have nothing to do with love, you can still have opportunities, be the consumer, have this great long life and accomplish what you want with a mate.

Like I feel what you're saying, but I just refuse to be that. I guess I'm an optimist, so and I'm in a loving, healthy relationship and I have children, families exist and marriage is not outdated. It's something...