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How to politely get off a phone call with someone that keeps complaining about others and his down straight annoying, what would you say to them to end that call?
Now I was on the phone with one of my boys and I didn't even know it but then he flashed a toy there. I was like ***** what you doing? He was like ***** I'm taking the dude and I was like ***** what? on the phone, down and up facts on it.
It's funny how guys bitch about like other guy like complain about other guys two other guys, right? And then like we'll just live our lives and do things like that and like it should be it should be sacred But like here you are blasting on stereo man. It was one time one time
You say yo you don't pay my phone bill is a bigger come off my phone you Gotta be rude stop pussyfooting around the bush be real see it with chest thank you later
No, I love Travis. No, yeah, yeah, yeah. He's a nice guy. He's a nice guy, but it I mean, I don't know It's something about the accent just it rubs me the wrong way It I mean, it's not an accent where he's from. I get it. I get it treat people with respect I oh my god, man, he's the last guy I talked to from way
So I start off real simple way like starting the call with oh by the way I'm walking home and then like if they start getting like really annoying I'll just stay with us with us
Honesty is the best policy I have to say because so what if they go away even with family it's kind of different but I had an auntie who thought she would replace my mom when she died and I had to actually write her a letter and say now you can back off girl
So I would say, listen, I'm really trying to set boundaries for myself this year and I can't, my nerves can't handle this negative talk anymore. So I love ya, but that's gotta kinda stop.
kudos to you if that worked especially with family, nah that did not work for me. firstly the last thing you said establishing boundaries and turning them to negativities not really working with where you are in life something like that. I try that with a friend.
As I was saying and yes, I lost that friend friendship died many years ago because they were still in the negative era So yeah, we family that shit doesn't work. It just turns into guilt trips it just turns into people's feelings being hurt.
Yeah, I've learned not to be direct with them. Just to be smart and be diplomatic and use evasive manoeuvres and that shit works And I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna keep on doing it because unless I want to cut them out and I choose not to cut family out so evasive maneuvers.
Hey 14 seconds have to get it all out isn't it fuck anyway it did work for me I have to say it you know I spit that out in 14 seconds I wrote a very good letter to that auntie I'll have more to say hold on
Do you think I wrote the letter saying all those things I use the word boundaries the whole thing but then fashioned it so that she would seem like a total prick if she didn't comply
So I agree you got a beat them at the game and that's indeed what I did she sent me the odd like with hearts and roses Zeno thing on what is it oh yeah Facebook messenger cause she's old
And because we have hearts and it sounds like you have a big one too, um, I love my auntie. It's just, yeah, no girl. Like, no. My mom was a nap. I did it once. It's all good. Love ya!