So last week me and my friend went to a restaurant and it was really nice seeing her because I haven't seen her in a long while and then I realize that she had kept texting on her cell phone and it was irritating me because I'm like who are you texting so she told me she was texting her boyfriend and she was getting angered because he wasn't replying fast enough to her message and I was trying to talk to her and tell her that it's OK maybe he's busy maybe he's working you know you never know what people can be doing in real life but she was getting upset and she was so bothered to the fact where she was like when I get home I'm not cooking no meals for him he's gonna have to cook for himself and she thought of it as a little punishment towards her boyfriend And I was kind of annoyed because I was just trying to have a conversation with her and she will not even give me five seconds of iContact so this is where it comes in the question that I want to ask do you get bothered when your partner doesn't reply fast enough to your messages for me and wouldn't bother me because you know I'll be busy throughout my whole day so I expect to know that my boyfriend is going to be busy to working school whatever he may be doing so what are you guys think about this question let me know in the comments

The answer is yes but a good partner trains so a good partner with that boundaries that we're only gonna communicate during certain hours of the day if you really need me I'll be there that to me as a way to undo the damage that's probably done by the toxic partners at one as I'd before that would've led them to actually needing them to reply fast because of any good relationship it's not about the time of the response but rather the quality and the trust

Oh, absolutely. At the current moment, the message that I left my wife is on red. I'm left... fucking husband is left on red. But then she gets home and she wants all my attention. I don't understand the shit.

No, I don't get bothered by that. I think you need to understand that partner is gonna be busy sometimes

No Your poo It's fine

She she was just being petty liar sometimes we can't the Texan back fast enough like we're just too stuck in the in the moment of doing whatever we're doing I mean she got to do better because that's a toxic trait she has there

I personally don't but um Understand if a girl is getting upset over Her boyfriend taking long to long to reply But um me personally as a guy I don't really get upset because it's like come on. You're supposed to have a life You're supposed to be here there everywhere and get interested done making some money going to the gym working out blah blah blah blah blah block you know so as a guy if you're getting upset over your girl not I'm not texting you back, you a bitch!

No, Jeremy, I don't get bothered when anybody doesn't text me back or message me back. I could care less. People are busy in this world, especially my partner. My person works all the time, so when he's not working, he's usually sleeping. So, no, I don't get bothered. I think it's cool sometimes when he doesn't reply because he's actually busy achieving goals. Hey, let's grow. Peace.

I feel like this goes for like even like crushes and friends but like when they don't reply fast enough that really doesn't bother me like a lot

To be honest I have so much like safety and respect and mutual consideration in my relationship that if my partner doesn't answer me I know it's cause he's busy and I'm not stressed about it he's not I know that like I have I feel confident that he's not seeing my messages and ignoring me like if he didn't get back to me it's because there's something else going on that has his attention at that moment and that he has to attend to like he's not gonna just ignore me

Oh I do believe that yeah you shouldn't be annoyed if someone takes a while to text back but I also do think that you guys build routines and do you know if you are in the middle of conversation and you usually you guys usually have a quick rapport it might be a little I guess annoying if they're not consistent with how they text you back it makes sense