Vasectomies can reverse themselves, so if he's really that concerned, he could get a paternity test. Technology has advanced so much to the point where people can get paternity tests while the baby is still in the womb. But the fact that he didn't tell her when they were trying to have for a kid, that's cruel.

why is this even a question he wrong she wrong at the end of the day it's his body his choice women say that all the time so if he wants to have a vasectomy he can right fuck off your bullshit men's choice men's bodies right that's that's it women's bodies women's choice men's bodies men's choice right so she's in the wrong because she was the one that fucking cheated she's obviously fucked someone else and got pregnant how is this even topic that the man is in the wrong fuck off your bullshit

She's trifling for being a cheater because whether he had a vasectomy or not, they could have also planned to have kids But the whole point is is that if she said her hopes and dreams were to have children And they've been together for four years and it wasn't having no kids. It is not a wonder that she cheated on him They're both toxic and they manipulate each other to get with each other