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Hey, it's me, comedian Tracy McDonald. Have you guys ever had a friend or someone you're dating say something emotionally abusive or mean to you? Did you set a boundary and say something about it, and did you forgive them?
Hey, it's Trace. I didn't get to hear the rest of your message, but it sounded like they said something hurtful about you and your late husband. I really hope that you don't talk to them anymore.
When I started gaining weight after the car accident I was in, he would call me a fat ugly c-word and he would say I was an embarrassment to be around or be seen with him in public because I wasn't skinny anymore. I'm sorry but who does that?
He also told me that because I got a little bit on the chunkier side because my back's literally broken and I can't do anything, he didn't love me anymore because I wasn't pretty. I never am going to forgive him for that, ever.
About this guy, he obviously has serious issues, but I think you gotta not forget, forgive, because it's his problem, not yours, and, but don't forget. I'm so sorry that I-
Oh yeah, definitely. Karma is definitely going to **** him right in the ass. Cause I mean, I was so good to him and just the way he treated me, I was like, you know what? You're going to get what's coming to you one day. You really are.
Oh my god, oh my god. What is this question you come up with? You know, I'm still dealing with this situation and I'm struggling to survive and I'm just hurting myself.
You know the worst part is every single day I'm just hurting myself. My emotions, my feelings are getting hurt. Yesterday night I cried a lot, I cried a lot. I'm completely into depression.
The person that I was just recently dating hasn't said something extremely hurtful, but he has pointed out that I'm very judgmental. And I honestly don't think that I can be judgmental, but it's not in the way that he thinks that it is.
This person I have found is broken and he needs to heal and he needs a therapist and he would get offended at a lot of the things that I would say and I felt like I had to be walking on eggshells just to talk to him. So when it comes to that, that means the problem is that he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and he needs a therapist and
The problem is him not me. I have had conversations with him about this. I have tried to communicate. I have acknowledged where my faults are, because I know where my faults are. And I've acknowledged, but he would keep bringing it up over and over again.
When someone keeps doing that, to me, a part of that is like playing the victim and there's some narcissisticness in that. And then also that just tells me, hey, you are very sensitive, you have deep insecurities, there's healing that needs to happen. And you know, you're
I told him that I have a therapist and just coming from someone who has a therapist I think it would be best have you thought about it and he he knows and he needs to get one But it's just he's got to actually do the work and get one.
I prayed for him and I really do wish him the best. I hope that he heals and I hope that the right woman does come in his life, that it's perfect for him, but it just wasn't me. He pursued me. Yes, I curved him twice.
But then I came back around because I wanted to give him a chance and I wanted to be open to giving somebody a chance. And we ended up dating for 13 days and on just recently, Friday the 13th, it was done.
When I would give a compliment to another woman for her outfit or her hair or makeup or whatever after the fact my ex would say something really negative and hurtful and sometimes harmful about the woman and it was gross.
The way that he would just randomly say things so out of pocket and disgusting about other people and sometimes myself as well, I really cemented that I should not be with him and I'm glad that we're broken up.