So I have a little brother who's around 13 years old, and he told me that he was buying a diary so that he could write out how he feels. So when I found out, I thought that was pretty cool. But my curiosity got the best of me, and one day when he wasn't home, I sneaked into his room, and I seen the book on his bed, and I just tried to open it and look into it, but there was a lock on it, and I'm like, oh man, I couldn't get into it. So I peeked a little bit through the corner, and it said, I miss you, with hearts. And it was all scribbled out, and there's hearts everywhere in it, and I was like, wait, is my brother in a relationship, or liked someone? Because he's never told me about it, and to me, I didn't even know he was dating yet. This came as a shock to me, I'm like, whoa, am I a bad sister? Let me know, because I feel bad.

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Um, good and bad are black and white, so instead I will say that you broke your brother's boundaries. You broke his consent, you looked into something that did not belong to you and the best thing you can do right now is go to him and tell him the truth and apologize. Sincerely apologize and say that you'll never do it again because you broke their boundary and if they do not, the longer you wait on this, the less they're going to trust you. Um, so you better do it fast.

This is a pretty simple way to go about it, uh, how would you feel if it happened to you? Yeah?

Okay, I'm not gonna lie. That is kind of messed up. You did go into somebody's private stuff and did go into the private stuff, but as long as they Did not find out That you went through they shit you should be fine. I'm just saying you should be fine Just saying you should be fine As long as you didn't if they as long as they didn't see you go through it Or see you or you left any evidence of you going through it. You're fine