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What's going on, stereo? This your boy DJ Hemothy Butler, aka Mr. Butler to you. Hey, so your wife died and left you with two kids, and you find out through a DNA test that neither one of the kids are yours. What y'all gonna do in this situation? Would you keep the kids and raise them as your own? Or would you say, fuck them kids and call their grandma and tell her to come pick these kids up? Let me know. Peace.
Now this is the most wildest post ever. I don't even know what to how do you start off on this? But if he is so bothered that that's not his DNA, right? He don't raise the kids We don't know how all these kids are, but if they're young enough He needs to contact some family members and drop them kids off with her family since that's not his kids It's not like he can go look up who the fuck she was fucking she did this is so fouling fucked up What do you do in a situation like this? I don't even I don't even know
Fuck them kids, okay? Fuck them kids. I don't know who she was sleeping with. And she dead, so I definitely ain't finna get no answers. But I'm about to call Gigi, Grandma, Big Mama, whoever. Come get your grandkids. I know they your grandkids, but these ain't my kids.
That ain't right, though, Butler. Like, that just ain't right. Like, love is love. And do your love turn off for the kids just like that? I don't see how that happens. I just really, really don't. Like, my brother, I have a niece right now, and it's not my biological niece. My brother, he was gonna go ahead and get the DNA test when she was younger, and he said he just couldn't do it. We found out way later in life that she's not, and it don't matter.
Yo, that's why mandatory DNA testing is important. Stop it, you gotta stop ignoring it. You gotta stop ignoring it. Because that's fucked up, not only fucked up for the kids, but for him as well. And she the only one. They need to start penalizing women for this shit. They start penalizing women for this shit, I think the results, it might change some shit. They need to start penalizing women for this shit for real.
Damn cuz oh, it's a wild motherfucking scenario right here. My *****. Sheesh. Oh Man that's difficult depends on how old the kids is man Depends on how old the kids is man. Oh, no, bro I'm gonna have to ponder this one and maybe spend the block back. This is this is wow I need to light my weed back up and come back to this
See, this is a tough situation because if he been in the kid's life the whole time then I think he should keep him. But if he just got it in life and he don't know him like that, then I would understand the need to, you know, get the fuck on him. But yeah, this is a sticky situation. Very sticky.
Oh, no, this ain't a tough one at all, because now I feel betrayed. Fuck them kids. I'm about to call their grandma, and she finna come pick these kids up, because there ain't no way in hell I've been betrayed all these years raising these kids. You know what I'm saying? And they ain't even mine? Nah. Tell grandma to come get these kids ASAP.
Why is it tough? He was living a lie. You know what I'm saying? What about his emotions? What about his feelings? What about the fact that he's been lied to and he has to mentally go through the pain and embarrassment of these A&E's with his kids? You know what I'm saying? Like all the emotions he gotta go through and feel. He need therapy. You know what I'm saying? That's some real shit. I don't know why. It's so funny. We talk about this post about what he should do. I mean, I know she dead, but I don't think that matters.
Oh my God, I'm crying tears. He said call grandma. Call grandma's home. Damn, that's wild. And there's two kids on top of that. I think he should keep the kids because, first of all, how long were they in your life? I mean, it's two fucking kids. Like, even though they're not your biological children, they still got respect and love for you. And they're the only father figure they've known. So why would you take that experience?
I hear what you're saying. Children need their father, but I ain't their father. So I'm calling grandma. And then, but I do the research to find out who their daddy is. Since children need their father, I'm fine to do, get my money back from him. And then the children will have their father. Since children need their father, they'll have their father. It's just not me, because I ain't your daddy. You know what I'm saying? But I appreciate the comment though.
I totally disagree. I understand your sentiment, but I totally disagree because what does it matter how long? You were watching them take care of the odds that they were yours. And yeah, those kids, it's not they cared those kids for, but they mother knew. They mother knew. So he gets to continue to sacrifice his life, his resources, and all the pain he got to go through for what now? He, don't he deserve a life of having his own?
Okay, okay, okay, because I'm 33 and I just found out that these kids not mine. I'm going to call that grandma and get her to come out and pick these babies up so I can roll because I have a flight to Bora Bora in the morning.
I'm not gonna punish a child because you know the mom actually wasn't honest and did something stupid. I mean but If they're not yours, and you still loved and cared about them. I mean I would stay with them if the rules were reversed but I Mean if you really didn't care about them, then yeah, you could call somebody
Wait, wait, you said if they wasn't yours, the roles could never be reversed, Fritzie? Because you would have carried them for nine months. They would have came straight out of you. The roles could never be reversed. Nope. Couldn't. Nice try though. Could never be reversed.
Why did he get a DNA test after the wife died? I don't feel like just biologically, um, biological, whatever the fuck, makes you their father. Like, what made you get the DNA test? It done your kids done your kids. They don't have anything to do with it. You know what I'm saying? But, you know, I can't say nothing. I would continue to have them be your kids.
Let me elaborate a little bit, because at this point, they do not have a mom, so how are they even supposed to find out who their actual dad is at this point? Like, it's not their fault. Continue to raise your kids.
I know you replied to me on the Tammy post, but I'm going to reply to you right here. Sis, I can't sit around and take that betrayal because, let's say the kids are 11 and 12, so that means for 11 and 12 years, maybe even 13 years, you lied to me about these two children being mine. I can love them from a distance, but I can't sit around and raise them. That's my thing. I just can't do it. That's just me. But I appreciate you commenting on my post, though. Love you, sis.
At the end of the day, the true answer is that a mandatory DNA test needs to happen. Period. Shouldn't be a question. Everybody should raise their hand yes. Because everybody deserves to know because that's fucked up for them kids. To not know who their real daddy is and now they don't have no mother and they got a random man raising them. You know what I mean? I think we get confused because we think it's the same as if I volunteer to raise somebody else's kid. That's not the same thing as being lied to.