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People often gaslight because being right allows them to validate themselves. When gaslights feel intimidated, they need you to believe and support their version of the story to maintain their sense of power and control.
I will cut a gas lighter off so fast. All it takes is one time and you're done. Like I will not have a false sense of reality just because you're an egomaniacal power-hungry control freak. Fuck that.
The last time it happened was a couple months ago. I was talking to someone and then the next day we talked again and the same subject got brought up and They happened to say like the exact same phrase that they did the day before.
Now I have a very good memory for the little details that most people don't remember. So I remember things like what I was wearing when I said something, or where I was when I first heard something. Stuff like that.
And because other people don't pay attention to those things, it's hard to even use those details to explain to somebody why I remember something when I'm trying to convince them that I remember. But people always want to deny what I'm telling them.
But nonetheless, I was explaining to this person the conversation that we had and they were in denial about saying that. They were like, no, we didn't talk about that. And I was like, yes, we did. And I remember because we also talked about this and this is what led up to it. But I was like, no, we didn't talk about that.
So basically I was told that that was my version of reality and that Just because I remembered something or because I thought I remembered something that it doesn't mean it really happened And I was just like wow yeah, fuck you bye.
I'm honestly glad that you cut that off because people like that do not need to be in your life. They do not need to be holding you down, girl. I'm happy that you did that. Much love, hun.
You know, sometimes it may be harder for other people to cut that circle off. So for me, hearing that, you cut it off just like that, like that's awesome and it's an inspiration to others, you know what I mean?
I'll tell you what. I don't know what gaslighting is. I'm not that familiar with it, but let it end. If it's hurting people, let it end, baby. Let it end.
Gaslighting means when someone uses the form of psychological manipulation in which one person makes the other partner doubt his perceptions, experiences, memories, or even understandings of what happened.
They are likely to get defensive, angry, or lie, or twist things around to make you feel like you're confused or you're wrong or doubt your own feelings about a certain situation.
There are signs of gaslighting and one of the signs is when the person keeps lying about something and they're refusing to admit the lie even when you show them proof. That is gaslighting.
Another one would be spreading rumors and gossip about you or telling you that other people are gossiping about you. That's another sign of gaslighting.
Another one that's more current would be twisting stories, you know, just for control so they can feel like they can control the narrative, which is wrong.
If you compliment somebody for being a good singer, that's not gaslighting them. If you compliment people for what they're good at, that's not gaslighting them. But unfortunately there are people that are bad people in this world, that are just losers. They have nothing bad to do.
Alright, it happened with every love couple actually. It depends on our understanding. But that kind of people are existing in all over the world. We can't tolerate anything else.
Big time tactic now. Oh, did I? I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. Are you offended? No, I'm not offended. Don't flatter yourself. That makes me want to punch your head off over the mountain range.
You know, I notice sometimes it's not even about power or control. Sometimes it's just about that person being manipulative in order to continue their reputation. I think a lot of times that's a motivator as well.
Oh, this is definitely my father. Like, in his form of gaslighting is literally forgetting everything shitty he's ever done to you. But for him, his memory is long for himself. He remembers stuff that was done to him all the way back to the fuckin' 80s dreamy.
I've actually also been several situations like this with family members until this day they still gaslight me and act like it never happened when we both know it happened.