So I'm quite confused. So I work with a lady who was basically like a mum to me. She's like 20 years older than me. She lost her mum in February and I found out that my auntie had passed away in March but she had passed away in November. She was a very reclusive person so she, you know, it wasn't unusual to not hear from her so I had to call the police and stuff in March because all her post was hanging out of her letterbox. So this friend basically thinks I shouldn't be grieving that bad for my auntie because she recently lost her mum. I had to go into counselling and stuff because of the circumstances like how she died and stuff. But now this friend is basically like, she doesn't really care that much and she's like got closer to other people and I used to give her lifts home but now she's just asking other people to give her lifts and she's basically like treating me like shit, like talking down to me and stuff. I just don't understand why. So maybe someone on here can explain why she could be like this.