If you can't make the plans that were previously made, should you let the other person know that you can't make it? Yes or no?

You are definitely supposed to let the other person know that you can't make it. That's having manners, that's being considerate. Do that. If you can't make it, you can't make it. Maybe they can't make it either. Maybe they're willing to reschedule.

Well, yeah, what are you gonna do, ghost them? What are they gonna do, like show up to the place you wanted to do stuff at and then you don't show up? Of course you gotta tell them! Otherwise that's just a bit rude.

I mean, I would think that would be common sense, but I keep forgetting that we live in a world where common sense ain't so common, child.

If they don't show up and they don't tell you and it's not like a life-or-death emergency that distracted them Then they don't value your time bottom line. So Yeah, just recognize they're not gonna value your time and don't put that faith in you

You know what I noticed? I think it's kind of interesting that all of the responses are coming from women as opposed to men. There's one male response on here and all the rest of them are from women. Hmm.

Well, if you've made a plan to meet somebody and you can't make it as equivalent to committing to do something and not being able to do it, you should at least let...

Thanks for your responses everybody, I just had to make sure that I wasn't crazy because unfortunately I deal with people who don't let people know that you're not coming and they just no call no show like some rude bastards.

Time is something that you... once it's gone, it's gone. You don't get it back. And we're on an unknown timer in life. We don't know when it's gonna be the last time we see someone or not. Time should be valued and they should let you know. Always.