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Focus on myself because like as much as like it does Feel good to be loved like if you can't love yourself then how you're gonna love anybody else, you know And I kind of like I need you today You're just gonna end up fucking up your mental health like because I know like everyone I have a few of like dying alone and stuff like that, but But I'd rather die alone and be happy within myself than die with someone in a relationship and they treat me like shit so
If you're going to be in a relationship with a romantic or platonic you're bound to meet some stress that comes with it is it important thing is to find someone that's Burley of you know what you will go through
I think I'd rather take time to focus on myself, but considering how that's going for me right now, I think I'd rather be in like a talking stage, I love me some talking s**t.
Him I'd rather have no relationship with nobody because number one I like women and I like to mess around and shit number two relationships come with too much emotional baggage in number three I care about myself way too much and I am kind of Sophys in that sense to really worry about another girl at the moment like I'm so early on in my career I'm still finding myself a little bit so I don't need all that extra shit bro I'm good
I feel like this question is quite obvious that you would prefer to focus on yourself then add stress to your life but it's also a case of like peoples coping mechanisms and like attachment issues and things like that like a bunch of psychological and like mental health stuff plays into it so it's not as black-and-white is this scenario
I mean I definitely wish it was more black-and-white for people to make decisions and just be like oh well why would I do that if I know it's going to get worse like your life could improve from the relationship you know they could help you to improve on yourself and even if the relationship ends you could still have been better off for being in it you know so it definitely just depends but if you know the outcome is going to be bad of course you're gonna say no
Well, I hate the fact that when anybody brings up this particular discussion, they portray these two options as the only options they have. So you either stay along and work on yourself, which might make future relationships better, or you might boost your career, or you get into a relationship that stresses you out.
Well, you could work on yourself while being in a relationship. That's an option. You could work on your relationship if it stresses you out. Maybe it's not the best relationship, right? Maybe if it's... maybe this stress is coming from a place of miscommunication that you need to work through. or maybe you need to get your priorities straight.
Well, these two are not the only options that you have. People have different circumstances, different situations, different priorities and values. Do you want a family right now? Do you prefer building a family over your own career? Or do you want to push that down the line? Are you gonna find the one that you want? These are all questions that need to be answered on a the case by case.