distance and communication

Deflection, projecting, changing the subject, avoidance, what is it? Neglecting one's emotions, neglecting to spend quality time together, you know, making it seem as though they have other priorities or other things that are of main importance to them. Becoming verbally abusive or having a short temper unexpectedly.

It's all just really sad because there are numerous signs of that but some people don't recognize them until it's too late so if any of these signs start to show, reevaluate the relationship that you're in and decide whether or not you need to leave immediately because it could turn violent. You know, when oftentimes when people feel guilty about something or when they have no remorse if they're a narcissist for what they're doing because they feel like everything that happens to them that's bad is there is um other people's fault and not their fault.

Yeah, they have been one after another but it would be all of those that you listed I guess first it would be the lack of eye contact And then I guess a short time par Which would be with a view to kind of creating a situation To kind of blame the other person for like why they're separated or why they're going through rough times So they don't see that the bad guy and then it would be projection But lack of eye contact is a big one.

They tend to become very controlling and physically and verbally abusive. So just use your discernment, your better judgment, and don't stay longer than you should. If you can escape, do so. But if you need assistance, call a domestic hotline. You can Google it, you know, domestic violence hotline, or look for women shelters if you're a man going through that, you know, men shall do something like that.

Are you saying that it's like even to create a situation there would be no social situation created on one part but then any little thing would spark up his temper temper temper now it's just ridiculous