No man, no real man, one no woman that's 100% independent. You know it's cool to be self-sufficient. It's cool to be able to get out here and do your thing and handle your business if you need to. But all that, 100% independent, I don't need no **** or nothing type attitude. Listen, that ain't gonna get you nowhere with us, okay? Not no real man, because part of the reason we was even put on Earth is to protect and provide. If you don't need me to do none of that, what you want me for?

Little boys don't want a woman that self-efficient because a man feel like if you're not self-efficient And if they can't take care of you then they can pretty much run your ass through the wringer and do anything You have to put up with that

Because you don't know how to do anything for yourself. A lot of misogynistic men thrive off a non-self-sufficient woman.

It's nice to have a woman that is self-sufficient because she can take care of herself, you know? And if that's not a good enough quality for a guy, then something's wrong with that guy.

I don't agree with everything he said, but I believe his truest contention was in the end when he expressed that he didn't want a female who has the attitude of, oh, I don't need no *****. Because in that regard, I agree. I'm not trying to deal with that, neither.

I definitely agree.

Now this the one, I wholeheartedly agree because they don't. Now boys don't want a woman that self efficient, not men. Men want a woman that know how to take care of herself. But no boys don't want a woman that self efficient, not men.

Girl, I'ma do a show about this. I'ma do a show about talking about both of them, because baby, it's a topic that needs to be talked about.

Alright guys, I'm only 17 and I can tell that guy's in his 20s or 30s or 40s, I don't know. But he sounds really insecure and he's probably single and gets zero bitches because he's obviously, I don't know why he needs a woman to be dependent on him to fill his ego, but whatever.

I'm a guess he just worded it wrong, but I think what he means is we want a woman that's depended on us to take care of her to some degree, to help her.