Hey guys man, my question for you today is, so I'm gonna paint like a little scenario for you guys right now you're talking to a girl for a couple months she's not your family you've met hers, you've been family friends for I'd say what 10 years plus so you know everything should be good between you guys you know I mean now let's say she's on holiday with you you're both on holiday different country let's say Portugal for example you know And then you go have a shower, right? But your girl's like chilling. And your girl's met your friends already, like your group of friends. Now let's say, let's just say for as an example, whilst you're in the shower, she calls one of your friends and they're on the phone for two hours. And then you go back and you see that they've been on the phone for two hours and they're still on the phone, bear in mind. And even when you're back, they stay on the phone. Now, you know, let me know what you do, but is this a deal breaker with the female and your friend? Or would you think nothing of it? You know, they're just friends, she's not your friend. So now, you know, she's making a friend, a little friend group. Let me know guys, we'll see you.

Yo, can't lie, um... I don't know if that's a deal breaker still. I reckon... I reckon that one's calm. Nah, personally I wouldn't let that slide, I'll be real. It's on the girls, the girls' fault. The friend is calm still, he's not really doing anything. He's just trying to be friends with your girlfriend, innit? If the girlfriend's being too much, you know what I'm saying? I was saying it was on her still and they differed a bit while he was looking so.

You're talking too much bro Whoever was talking to your thing behind your back your date therefore was on some time in her so I should chat to your go on your way about that and ses the weather services.

The word on the street is that man still talking and snapping at us so... I'm really okay with this.

I didn't I wouldn't say that's the deal but I guess it just depends on what they're talking about and how long they're talking for Because if it's like just one day that they have a long ass call and that's cool They was just like having a conversation. Maybe catching up who knows who cares But if it's like constant calling the same person over and over that's when it becomes a problem. That's like Starts getting a little sus you get me like But if it's just like one call like it

So from a girls perspective I've personally would not be calling my boyfriends friends for two hours plus him and less I do you know desperately had to even call them at all if you want to continue the relationship though because this could just have been a nursing conversation or whatever was discussed really the best thing you can do is have a conversation with her discuss your boundaries what you're comfortable with and

I mean I don't think it's like a serious problem right now but something is definitely a costume with things like to I was with your friend like I maybe something is going on I'm not too sure but will check it out

Yeah that's just a dick move if she's doing this behind your back she knows what she's doing and I wouldn't say that's cheating it kind of depends on what they're talking about though but if it's like for two hours straight then that's 100% disrespectful and I think you should have a proper conversation with your girl