OK I'm just coming on here to say it takes a village to raise a child it also takes a village to raise an adult we need community we need people to support us we need people around us who bring joy who give us companionship it's not like you can't just rely on your partner for if you have a partner for every single thing you have to be able to have a sense of community that you can retreat to We in that way you support one another especially in parenting especially in all of the emotions that come with parenting you're literally raising a human being into you no like you're you created a human you're raising this human into whoever they're going to be and hopefully the best version of that for themselves and I think it requires a lot of other people as well even though we are such an individualistic society I think the fact that we're in individualistic society is really to our detriment I know a lot of people on scale have talked about it but like I just kind of wanted to chime in with my thoughts because I hear people talk about how it takes a village to raise a child but it takes a village to be an adult in the world to like we are communal and social creatures what are your thoughts