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Alright y'all, let me get in y'all's business. What questions do y'all ask somebody that you are interested in? Like for me, I like to ask them What happened in their last relationship? Why are they single now and have they healed from it? What about y'all?
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I can't think of particular questions right now, but I like to ask open-ended questions to try to figure out what his mindset is about a variety of topics.
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For example, whether he has a positive or negative view of marriage. And this shouldn't be asked directly, but it can be ascertained by asking indirect questions and seeing whether his answers skew positively or negatively.
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Another example is whether he has a growth or fixed mindset. You know, does he think that everything is set in stone and nothing can be done when there's a problem? Or does he think that things can be worked on? You figure this out indirectly as well.
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Another example is figuring out whether he is generally positive or generally negative. Now I don't do that by asking him his opinion of himself. I figure this out by observing him and having discussions with him.
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All in all, I think that questions are overrated and we pay way too much attention to them. Overall, you can learn everything you need to know about a person by simply observing them and not making excuses for their sideways behavior.
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What's the relationship with your mom how often do you see your kids how long you've been at your job do you have a car where you live and who do you stay with that's up shit all that give me that is so secure
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Those questions you say are very important but besides all those answers that he is going to give me, I just try to analyze him as much as I can at the end of the day.
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Actions are more valid than words. He can maybe say to me, yeah, I'm healed. I am ready, blah, blah. But if his behavior show me the opposite, then it's a red flag.
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I'm going to ask questions to know how self-aware they are because I think that's huge.
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you can ask them why their last relationship ended so that way you can conclude what is their current behavior
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I'd like to ask him do you have a retirement plan um am I gonna be on your will Can you put me on your life insurance oh wait I'm still not on my Nichols life insurance guy
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I have like a whole long questionnaire for them starting with personal desires, what job they have, if they like cats.
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So when I'm on a date with someone, one of the very first things I ask is how far along, like how serious was their last relationship and how long they've been single from that, because the answers can really surprise you.
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