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Would you keep your significant other as a secret and then when y'all get married that's when you will put him or her on display? I think keeping your relationship a secret is a great idea. You don't have to always post everything on social media and everybody don't have to know your business and I don't even think that people would know who my significant other is once I'm married. Because if you're in my circle, you're going to know what is going on anyway. And again, I just don't feel like that social media just need to be in my business. Let's di rise communicating so that people say to us that the pastor faced organization support for keeping heaven LORD. of Christ. He feels as if your prayer that a child has been given or Jesus walked into his physical back, to goats, and hilady put in his va desp View
I mean, I don't think posting them all over the internet is great. And you know, until they are of significance, I don't think you need to be telling everybody about them. they make you happy, share that experience.
I feel like there's definitely a difference between private and secret especially if they do post everything on social media then if you're not posting me it's kind of like oh that's suspicious you know by the same time that people do have boundaries and I feel like having a private relationship is really healthy.
Now, you're definitely right in regards like if they post everything and you also said the keyword in regards with boundaries. So I know if I'm dating someone that always like to post up, I'm not looking, I would be more like don't post me. Like I don't want to be posted. It's okay. We don't even have to post each other. That's just me. Anybody else would probably be like, why you ain't posting me? I'm I'm I'm a okay and fine with not being posted
I love this question because I feel like being private versus being a secret are two different things. You can be private about your intimate details or your relationship and not putting your business out there, being a secret, that means nobody can know you all together. That's not, that's not realistic.
Thank you for allowing for me to know the difference between privacy and the secret, which is absolutely fine with me. But yeah, I'm more on the privacy side. Like, everyone definitely doesn't need to know what's going on or anything like that. I will pose when I'm ready to pose.
I feel like now I am keeping your secret but until I'm completely sure about you I don't have nobody to introduce you to and it's not to be shady it's just that I value the people that I value and I can't bring anything or anyone to them that I'm still in I'm questioning
And that makes a whole lot of sense. And that's like you don't want to bring anybody around your kids unless you're sure about them. So that's just basically how I feel when it comes to, you know, wanting to place my relationship on social media. It's nobody's business. And I don't think now I've learned it's about keeping the privacy more than it is a secret.