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So I was talking to someone the other day about friendships and I feel like the older we're getting The harder it can be but is it easy or difficult for you to make friends because despite my age of being 27? I am a social butterfly. I'm an extrovert. I love being around people anyways, and no matter where I go I like to make a friend Even though I have more boundaries these days. It doesn't really stop me from coming across a new face. But I would love to hear your take on this.
I'm great at maintaining friendships but I'm not always like one to start the friendship. It kind of is like this tango back and forth back and forth and then aha here we are. But yeah it can be because as you get older you realize like the quality of friend that you're looking for you need in that season of your life may not be the quality of friends that you have surrounding you so you're very selective.
It's easy but it's also difficult because we are all in a different mindset me personally I think it's pretty easy because I am nothing but a child at heart and I will always stay that way until the day that I actually died so me fairy easy to make friends
I think the older people get the more boundaries they have in the more they know what they're about I'm so obviously this still isn't apply to everyone because everyone's different but I feel like for a lot of people as they grow older because this is harder for them to make friends I mean it could be easy for someone to make a quinces I know someone and talk to them you know even regularly but to make an emotional connection or any kind of a connection where use hang out or you can call yourselves friends it's not a shake
No for me it's not difficult to make friends when I have people my age in front of me because I've not gone to university and I don't work at the moment where I work in an actor but I don't have like a normal job and yeah it's hard to make them but when I'm with people I don't I think I am I think I'm a social butterfly and it's easy to make friends
Oh I feel this in my soul no it is so difficult for me to make friends like I have a really bad habit of being like the first person to reach out the person to invite people over for coffee and barbecues and stuff because I love doing that I'm a social person I love playing cards I love cooking my love languages feeding people but it's like once somebody blows me off even just once or makes a habit of blowing me off it just turns me on
I have a real knack for making friends super easy. It's always, I've always been able to my whole life, but it is interesting as an adult how reluctant we are, or at least I had been in the past, to make new friends, like actual real friends, as opposed to just being friendly and kind to new people when you meet them. But I just went back to revert back to being a kid and asked people, hey, you wanna be friends? It was as simple as that, but I love it.
Difficult because people lie and say that they like individual personalities, individual identities, but in actuality they like to follow people, they like to follow trends, they like to, how do you say, fit into the definition of what normalcy and society is as opposed to being different and unusual and thinking outside of the box.