Hey guys dreamy hair is it normal to have personal time in a relationship if your partner says they need space it's easy to panic and think you've done something wrong but the truth is a little space is healthy in a relationship sometimes we start spending too much time together or we miss our friends or we just aren't feeling like ourselves and space can reset the balance spending time by yourself and focussing on different goals or hobbies is good and it is essential part of a relationship that helps ensure you retain your own individuality well also growing together as a couple So how to make time for yourself in a relationship set boundaries be consistent be clear about your needs set goals keep a calendar talk to your partner make any expectations clear and don't forget to be kind to yourself So now I have a question for you guys how do you feel about this topic is it normal to have a personal space and a relationship in my opinion I feel like it's excellent and essential to I definitely time to time need my alone time and definitely I feel great about having it as well

I'm deathly gonna say it is normal to have personal space relationship I think that we need it and it's essential to feeling balanced again you know I think it's great to have your own time and you think your own hobbies it also makes your relationship stronger as a couple

Well to be honest yeah I feel like personal space is definitely needed from time to time you know like the only would have panicked like shit like I you know with the whole space part but it can be needed and it's healthy.

Oh, 100%. Even if you're like kind of an introverted person and you're with someone else who's introverted and you don't have a lot of social life, I think you still need time by yourself away from them. Like, I heard Sarah Silverman do an interview recently where she said she never thought she was going to get married again or ever be with somebody and live with them, but then she met a guy that was okay with them having separate bedrooms bedrooms and I was like that sounds like that's for me.

Yeah I agree it's definitely very normal to have personal space and time alone and if you really think about it it's really unrealistic and unhealthy to be spinning I don't know if I say unhealthy but it's like unrealistic to spend every second of every hour of every day every minute of every hour of every day together and in order to miss each other you have to spend time apart or else you're just going to be just so used to and you don't know but you

Oh absolutely yeah space is imperative do your thing I do my thing we come together that's yeah couples that are so you know I mean I love doing shit I know you get it anyway yeah people who you know I said anyway I don't wanna drive as a reward for doing stuff together or codependent and they're fucked

Hey dreamier to wine am I agree with your topic am I do believe it doesn't make the heart grow fonder and there's nothing wrong with it have a low Utah Amarillo meantime

I believe so like I feel like seeing somebody all day every day can get exhausting so being able to have that time away from each other or in your own space is necessary

Yes I mean I'm not personally in a relationship right now but if this person that I'm with do not respect my personal space that I want you go you are gone breaking on

Yeah, I think it's very healthy in my opinion, especially if you're taking a break from each other in a good way. So my planet can go somewhere and be by yourself and get her things done and I can do the same like going to the gym.

I feel like it's more than normal. I feel like it's necessary to have personal space.