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So I just got off the phone with my friend and I'm just like realizing that we literally do not like the good guys in it so we're like the most consistent most loyal loving honest guys are never the ones that we want it's like always the ones who are toxic don't text back and give us a hard time take us through hell and back that were so interested in like and I just don't get it it's like never the guy that we want I think and when I say go guys like he does everything we want but we just don't want them back it's like if it's bad timing or if we genuinely just don't like that like you know I mean like I just wanna understand us because it doesn't make sense I know that the realtor guys are like I feel sorry for them and I'm sure this will exist guys that are attractive as well but it's like I haven't met one yet and that even just based off of being attractive I'm just mean the overall package so I just want to know let's help each other understand each other better
Me personally I actually do like the good guys, you know, but the bad guys seem to always be Drawn to me or attracted to me. So I was kind of Brought around the bad guys a bit more, but I prefer the good guys I prefer somebody who has a little geek in them as well. So.
Shut the fuck up you don't like to go see your drawers beach and also call you a bitch Abby puzzle at the same time a good game I'll do that I'm saying that it going to take you out on dates take you to meet your mama oh did I sit on it takes Rebecca part of foot and said he draws up
So for me I like good guys but it's like I just have to be attracted to you I just have to like you as who you are like there's I'm I feel like it's just like sometimes the people we do end up somehow falling for not Nestlé are like bad guys like drug dealers or they don't have a job I don't I like is more so just kind of like they have a little je ne sais quoi something a little different little razzle-dazzle to them versus like a complete square because I like nerds to like I don't know I get attracted to like and tell her
There's definitely nothing wrong with liking good guys. I will say this though, it's not necessarily that bad guys or the bad boys or whatever are drawn to you, but a lot of times like these guys that do have the toxic traits are looking to take your time. They are looking to feed off your energy. There are leeches. They do want to waste your time. so you have to have discernment and be able to pick those people out.
I think the whole thing with that is I've read that before I think is that the traits that women are seeking are easier to find in a bad boy than a good boy and In this society There's a lot of trial and error until you can actually find a good guy.
That's honestly fair and I can definitely agree with that because honestly a lot truly does tie in to all like everything on its own with kind of girls seeking certain traits that really are toxic traits at the end of the day it's not even really things that we think we really need it's just like we're somehow only attracted to men who don't just do right by us cause you do everything right it's almost weird unless you like that me now
Yeah, definitely some men can carry certain traits that women are looking for. It all really depends on if they can manage those traits accordingly. If they're on the quote-unquote bad guy, they're most likely will be a bright product of them treating you a certain way that is not
Find a good guy that was raised well enough that he can be a good guy but also have those traits like leadership and you know willing to be like you know daring and not necessarily woo you but you know talk to you a different way or talk to you nicer be necessarily not even aggressive but like have very nuanced actions when it comes to things like taking control or being a leader or showing affection to a woman in this area.
Extremely valid points 1000% with you on these things you would and it's it's just like weird because when it's with a guy you know you like whether they're a good "" or a bad boy "" it's like it's just different but like some of the guys that really are just like the one to do everything right and we just can't figure out like what's missing he does this he does that he does he does that for like fun things that little Jenna Sequa is missing so it's weird I don't know
Want to say easy because think of it like this a bad boy He has all the leadership Characteristics and a man the man should have and then women try to change them. So you think like hey That'll be easy feet Just change the person trying to make them, you know have some nicer qualities because it's me But then again, you think about it like this you did a good guy He doesn't necessarily have those leadership roles leadership roles in a man as a man in.
Yes I definitely also agree with you on that having the changing aspect of things a lot of women heart is so beautiful they're thinking like oh I'm glad they got to see you gonna change into anything for me like they get a little too they get another way with like that type of thinking because I literally love disappointing themselves in the long run because no one you can't change a man that doesn't want to be changed and if they just come as they are you either except them or you don't because I'm not here to say it anyway because that's just a one other job Cum hole and come as what I already for
However I do believe it is going to be harder to build up a "" nice guy to be like a leader and to take those leadership qualities and to be able to truly leave me because if you're too nice I don't wanna be able to feel like I can literally walk all over you like I'm not saying I need someone to like put me in my place but if there ever came a time where I just needed some discipline like 00 until you're over thinking the answer all your email maybe you should think about it this way and you can kind of person you can like kind of persuade me into like a better life I just wanna be able to learn from you now
All right right about to come for me on my shit but you need to chill on responding to my people that be Vibin with my sound by you being so mean like you need to chill bro
Well, I beg to differ. I've never been interested in the bad boys and I've always preferred the good guys. I guess I'm a bit different but I hope I'm not the only one.