What's my red flag first of all let me say this and learn how to be happy with yourself with balance because my red flag is I'm too happy by myself that I would rather not gamble my time with a possible because I just feel like it's a waste of time already

I wonder if your red flag is that instead of saying that oh I'm too happy by myself you're too hyper dependent and I don't want to psychoanalyze you but hyper independence can also be a trauma response as well.

I feel like I'm one of those persons that enjoy my own company. I really feel great when I'm by myself during the day.

In my opinion, being happy with yourself is not a red block at all. That means you enjoy your own company and feel comfortable by yourself. don't need anyone else to compliment you or make you happy.

Oh, we, yes ma'am, yes ma'am, yes ma'am.