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Let's talk about friendships today. I did a sound **** about friendship a few weeks back and I wanted to come on here today to talk about breaking up with a friend. Now I feel like ending friendships is something that we don't really discuss a lot. Ending relationships with someone who you're romantically interested in is a lot more commonly used in conversations and more seen as more normal, I think. But when it comes to ending friendships, it is more tricky and I feel like there are a lot of great areas in the subject. So I wanted to ask you guys, have you ever ended a friendship and why and what was your perception about it.
Evelina? Okay, I hope I said that right. Evelina, did I say that right? Um, this is a great question. Um, wow, yeah, that's a great question. I had to cut off a few friends this year, just due to several reasons, things not, like, our interests not aligning anymore, kind of lack of disrespect. Me adding more boundaries to my life, I noticed that some people were benefiting off those lack of boundaries. you
And it's not easy breaking these friendships up. It's like you're actually having a breakup with a partner. Obviously not as deep and emotional for me because I wouldn't get as deep and emotional with my friends as I would with a partner. But it's not easy and it really really sucks and you feel the pain you grieve a bit.
definitely you are on point with these questions today girl yes breaking up with friends and stuff I had a guy best friend and me and him were really cool like Rich Hill but I feel like once I met my husband that's when I feel like he started to really push the boundaries he knew how I was or am like you know when I'm with someone with a guy so...
I don't know. He just knew that he knows how I am when I'm with someone or when I was like in a relationship or whatever. And so it was just he really did cross boundaries and I told him and he still proceeded to do it. So that's the reason why we definitely had to not be friends anymore and it's okay. It's sad. But at the same time, I'm not going to disrespect my relationship or my husband. That's that.
So I've definitely had to end our friendship unfortunately and I had had that friend for a really long time and I've shared some moments with that friend that I've never had with anybody else and so I'm gonna tell you the story about why I ended up friendship and how I ended it because I ended it in a bad way
So I had already considered ending the friendship a few times because of some shady things she's done in the past but my final breaking point was when she was supposed to take my scene of my graduation photos I had moved my schedule and everything around to Taylor to her availability and an hour before we're supposed to go shoot she cancels on me because there's a spider in her car
And so after that I was super upset because like she basically gave me her word and then canceled on me and I had already paid her and so at that point I just blocked her on everything like no explanation
But it was one of those friendships where if you don't put the work in to talk to that person then they you don't hear from them basically and she had her own mental issues that she was dealing with like her depression and anxiety and all of that and I was fully understanding but like I would call her and she would play video games and talk to her friends on the video game and act like I wasn't even on the phone
And so after a while I was just drained from having to put all the effort into having the friendship and so once I stop putting the effort in I stop hearing from her and it made it really easy for me to remove her from my life and so far my life has been driving without her in it