Hey guys Ariel and I had a question on whether y'all rather be alone trying to heal yourself trying to be in a better place or would y'all rather settle so least you have someone to be with because sometimes I feel like maybe people rely on settling just to have a person instead of just trying to find a person that fits them so what is yawls opinion on that

Honestly, as hard as it feels sometimes, I'll rather be alone. And that's because I've taken so much time to work on myself. I've taken a lot of time to heal and just get myself into a place where I am proud of the woman that I am today.

See you should be happy that should be your first and most important goal is to be happy in your own right Successful in your own right and then you know love will come because you'll find out you don't need anything from a partner so you won't ever be settling.

I definitely settled before just to have somebody around but now I am loving being alone and I'm loving the healing process. It's not easy but it's worth it.

It depends on what stage of your life you are and not making any rushed decision.

Settling in a relationship, in my opinion, is going to be a disaster. I don't think it would ever work out. I think a person should love their self enough to not want to settle. And if they have some personal things, issues that they need to work on, They need to figure all of that out before they try to jump into a relationship.

I'd rather be alone than settle like come on when you're settling you're gonna be mad every day It's gonna be purposeless for being with this person. There was no point from the beginning. I I'd rather be single alone.

I rather be alone I mean I get that humans are naturally social creatures and we want to be around people like I like company you like company everybody likes company you know that's just how it is but I also feel like we need to learn how to be happy by ourselves because we can't always rely on other people for our happiness you know

okay since honestly I just recently got out of a relationship so in my opinion I would rather be alone and try to focus on myself till somebody that will like really like, like me for me, but in the audience whether they're alone.

I would rather be alone than to settle hands down because people may think oh if you're alone you need somebody but having the wrong somebody is way more depressing to think oh I'm giving them my effort and they can do nothing for me

He was great. Like I enjoyed being single, but I just started getting back into the dating game. I've been out of it since like 2015, like no lie. But I would like a girlfriend personally, cause I just want to cuddle and have somebody to spend my time with. It gets kinda lonely, but I accept being alone and I've created a routine within myself, but I would like to have somebody, the right person at the right time.