So you guys damn is the winner here on first of all I think everyone that comes to my page and answers my soundbites I have noticed that I've gotten a couple of people that I've become regulars and I really do appreciate you guys and I do go back and try to show you guys love as well so when you're dating right do you have to go everywhere at your partner goes like if they go onto the store you have to go to stores they going out with their friends you want to go to if they want to go to the movies you have to go to the movies so do you feel like you have to go everywhere that your partner goes Show me guys

Nope. No, not me. Somebody else may not be.

I will say no you do not have to go everywhere your partner goes they need their space and you need you are so setting a boundary yeah internal valve yes yeah that's internal boundary