And actually since I mentioned a budget I am also curious to know for those of you in relationships are you or your significant other the budget or or do you just keep your money separate a little private I hope you guys aren't offended and if you are go fuck yourself For those of you who are not and I'm going to comment who is the one who budgets in your household

We definitely both do we are both very frugal like we try to save as much money as we can spend as much as little money as we can and don't buy anything we don't wanna surly need I thrift everything like all her clothing just why not

I do the budget but we do like a weekly thing where like I'll do the budget by the month and then each week will kind of like sit down look at it talk about it figure things out together as a team

So I'm a stay at home mom and my significant others will not raise in the income so we don't really like do budgeting we definitely need to but he is the one that handles all of like the money and all that kind of stuff so