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Do you guys think that kid should get butt weapons personally I don't think they should because it's just a form of control and it's basically applying like a whole kind of fear you fear me so I can control you thing and I just don't want my kids to be programmed by fear you know I don't have kids yet but in the future when I do I don't want to be programmed that way
As I've gotten older, I definitely don't believe in it anymore. I think it's important to teach children how to effectively communicate without causing harm to each other. And you should be the first example.
You're right you are the first example so make an example not beat your kids regularly but when the active like beyond a peaceful approach that's when you have to do what you need to do as a parent
Physical discipline makes you stronger but being vocal about why you do it and how much you love your child is a balance need to keep as a parent as well that's how you make a stronger child a stronger generation
No I don't believe him but weapons I believe an ass up and it's not important but honestly I agree with you because like that's all it is fear you're afraid to get pain inflicted on you cause it's going to hurt like hell man
Yep, I agree with you 100%. There's many other ways to discipline your kids and hitting them or, you know, butte weapons is not one of them. That's just going to distill fate into them and and you don't want to set them up in a real world for that kind of attitude.
Now regardless of their bad kids obviously there's something going on in the hole because many kids can come up not being a bad kid that's obviously the parents issue and if they have to put their hands on them to get them to respect him that's a parent problem not the kids
By the Santonio to remember there's like some kids that is Brad he like rude ass kids because their parents didn't discipline them at all so they lose they start an older they just used to acting like that so that is bad because they were never discipline so you need to level discipline with the kids so they grew up knowing what they shouldn't and should do a society
I definitely agree with you and it has been proven by psychologist that it does more damage than good to your children mentally it is a form of control and I don't think hitting your kids is a great way to discipline them when there's other resource
Also the whole survival bias of I was spanked and I am fine no you're not I guarantee you you're not fine I was spanked as a kid and I am definitely not fine
No but I mean statistics you read no matter how many websites you visit as a parent one day you will regional tomato them on your child walks over you or you prove to your child that you were not to be walked over
No this doesn't need to be a child regularly but do you need to take physical action when necessary but also be vocal about how much you love your child maintain a balance
100% yes because taking their shit away or putting them in time out like they know okay I can do this then I'll get punished I just waited out and then I I can do it again.
But with an ass whipping, you don't know how hard you'll get hit. I'm always saying, I'm not saying, beat the kids to death or severely, but just hitting me enough to where they learned the lesson of, well, if I do this, I'll get hit. so I shouldn't do anything bad.
I totally get where you're coming from. Like they can learn that their bad actions have negative consequences. But do you think that a kid would be able to learn that on their own without a butt getting skilled using several BEI Hasta
Uh, I think no. They can learn some of it, but only to an extent. Like my brother, he didn't really get whipped that much, and he's the most bradious one. He'll talk back to the parents. he won't really listen to them.
Like he kind of has no respect for anyone You know, but me and my sister when we were little we'd get whooped and like we respect our folks We try to respect each other and you know, we don't talk back or anything
I understand that people think that it's not right, but sometimes there's just the only way to go with another sort of teaching or showing them that something's wrong doesn't workout.