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I'm tired of giving people the pleasure of walking all over me. It's starting to deteriorate my health and it's also starting to deteriorate my mindset. My mentality isn't the same as what it used to be before. All because of someone else's actions and all because of someone else's inflictions too as well. But yet I feel like I'm not worth it or like I'm not even good enough for anyone.
If you're tired of it, then you have to learn to set boundaries for people so they do not use you or trample all over you. That is within your control, not theirs.
What they did to you and what they are doing to you is wrong. But you are in control of yourself. You need to set those boundaries because nobody can do that for you and they sure as hell won't.
Setting boundaries is an essential skill that all of us have to learn because if we do not, these are the exact things that will happen to us and we're not gonna like it.
But I still want to let you know that you are worth it. You have always been and you always will be and nobody can take that from you. You decide your worth, not other people.
My therapist has taught me that you know you can't really control other people's actions but you can control yours and I know it goes beyond actions and how you feel therefore.
This year I'm committed to standing up for myself, setting boundaries, and learning to take rejection or backlash from others, and loving myself in the process.
And I'm sorry you went through those things. Those people don't deserve your time or energy and I really do hope you find people who love you for you and You know know how to accept your boundaries, and I hope things get better for you.
First off, you are straight up somebody, you feel me? We all came into this world with equal opportunity and everyone on this world wears crowns and is royalty, you feel me? So, treat yourself like royalty and for the people who disrespect you can get it.
And when I say get it, I mean they can get the door, they can get out. They don't deserve your energy for whatever egoic games that they are playing based on their insecurities. Okay, don't pay people any mind that disrespect you.
It took me a long time to figure this out and I'm still working on it, but you can't let them do that. You can't let people treat you like that. And you're the one that's going to have to stop it.
Like I don't know the fuck is wrong like I know if you can or not but I just know that your voice is raspy as fuck and you can't need to get a shit fixed it's not saying it to me girl