I will never search for someone cheating if I feel it I'm good what about y'all because the energy that people be putting in investigating and calling numbers back and trying to find passwords I'm not doing it no

Yeah if you want she Heynis on you I got time

I think now I can say that previously, look I'm all for getting whatever evidence you need to leave as long as you leave but now yeah I trust my gut feeling more than anything anybody can show me.

I feel like it depends on the situation. Like if you got mutual friends and whatnot, it can be good to have some evidence. But yeah, definitely don't put yourself through more pain than you need.

I'ma say when I did it, I was crushed. And I've learned my lesson and I won't do it again. Searching for someone cheating is not a good feeling at all.

If I found out that she was cheating or my girl was cheating I wouldn't be mad at the guy because at the end of the day my loyalty to last down with the woman that I'm m-

I totally agree with you this is just a waste of time and energy and if someone does not want to continue in the relationship you can basically tell by their behavior

Well, they say if you go looking for something, you'll find something, so you're on to something. In this case, no need to search, the truth will come out.

I totally agree with you. I don't see myself like wasting any time or effort or energy trying to find the truth like come on and I don't judge it because I used to be one of these girls.