OK serious question if your significant other is watching porn is it cheating or not cheating and why personally for me I think it is just because you are self pleasuring yourself to another male or female while they are naked Like whether you're talking or touching them or not you're still pleasuring yourself and doing yourself to the luxe and sound and you know part of another female or male personally I think it is maybe it's not for everyone but like that's some thing that you and your partner supposed to do together so like if they're off going to watch another female or male I don't know I feel like I can't hurt my feelings but maybe not for everyone so let me know