well, i'm gonna say it doesn't matter if it's something that makes you or that you're feeling right in the moment or in the flow with the person you are you know so many girls told I was like.. yeah, not into her because I didn't proceed or ask them to have sex on the first date

I mean, with a first date, it's like everything else that you do on the first date How you present yourself is how you're gonna be perceived So it just depends on the person and the intentions and how you wanna be perceived I mean, I wouldn't say that it's good or bad It depends completely on the two people involved, really Personally, I mean, I wouldn't If I'm trying to forge a relationship, then I wanna be taken more seriously than that, I guess