And you know what when you work on yourself majority of the time you're just focusing on yourself, you're not even focusing on Getting out there and dating and you know That whole song and dance There's gonna be someone that just comes along and they appreciate you for you you know your work on yourself inspires them and And that could be the one you know, that might be a better result, you know, but yeah, just do you

I literally need to work on myself and stay away from it, but it's hard whenever, no matter what I do, I change my phone number, I delete my social medias, he finds ways, he talks to my friends, he tries to get, he'll just find me in public, like, mans will not leave me alone.

But that's that's fine if he wants to if he wants to Occupy his time and effort with Stalking you. I mean obviously that's not fine. I'm not saying that that's okay. No one should do that. But what I'm saying is You just got to show him that you don't give a shit. You're just gonna keep working on yourself Go to the gym, you know go to work He's like standing outside the window continue to work. Don't pay him any mind. Eventually. He's gonna get the fucking clue You know what I mean like it'll be okay

obviously I'm speaking out of like an ideal you know hoping that that's the outcome obviously I know that there's some crazy people out there and I'm sorry that that's the situation for you but I do hope that you're able to get past it you know yeah just keep keep the right people around you people that love you work on those relationships and yeah I think it'll be okay eventually might take time but all things

He is beyond got the clue and told me he's not taking no for an answer But like he hasn't physically harmed me so I can't get a restraining order, but he has stalked it harassed me so

Well, thank you. You are very sweet and I'd say you give me the best advice so far on this thread. So thank you for that