I'm sorry but the motive behind the last one comes across as very rude and patronising. Like you're not even taking into account what is going on in their lives. For instance, I can be saying yeah I'm sorry I'm sorry I've just been a bit stressed recently because I'm planning my grandfather's funeral. You can now just say well you don't need to apologise for what your stress has done to you but for what it's done to me. That's rude.

I agree with what he's saying and it is about mental health and it's about boundaries. Everybody makes mistakes and everybody does things that they don't maybe consider the other person, but if you know you willingly said something without consideration for the other person and they are calling you out on it, don't feel angry about the calling out. Own up to it. Own up to your mistakes. A lot of people don't want to do that and then you're arguing in the comments and you're getting heard about what you said, but you know you did something wrong, but why aren't you owning up to it?

I don't waste my fucking breath on no motive apologies. I just say go fuck yourself