I'm the first date? Not really, because it's like your first date, and it's like weird and shit, and like, I wouldn't do that, and I wouldn't like, touch nobody either, cause like, I'm like really nervous cause it's my first date, but yeah, but it's like, if you know the fir- like, if you know the person, right, for a long time, and you never had a date, but like, meet, like, it's gonna be comfortable, but like, first date, mm-mm, and uh-uh, y'all some hoes, don't do that.