Well, for starters, I feel like the past is the past. If he's still in love with her, then he would have obviously either divorced you or left you or even cheated on you with her. So overall, I feel like the past is the past. Don't be mad that you were second choice, but you were his first choice in marriage. So, you know, there's a lot of things that can go on in that situation. But overall, I believe that you don't— I think you shouldn't—

He will always love her. The problem is he's married to you so he's either gonna be loyal to you or this is gonna keep being a consistent problem and then it's gonna ruin your marriage. So he has to decide what he wants to do and you should decide if you wanna be able to try and fight that or handle that or what.

The fact that you even got married to him, and you just figured that out, shows that the marriage was a complete waste of time. Wow, that's insane. And basically, you were a whole rebound. And, wow. Damn.

How y'all doin' today? Well, ain't nothin' wrong with that. You know, uh, you can fix all this very easily. You gotta just make a sandwich. You know, you, your friend, and your husband get together and you know, just, uh, you know, uh, fuck like jackrabbits. So, yes.

Um, maybe talk to him about it, and then just divorce him, I guess.

well that's your fault for selecting them like let's be real you're the one that knew that your friends set you up which means that they had history or she's trying to pawn them off or some shit like that I mean you girls know each other girls do this shit all the time when I get slapped back at you girls and you're like oh no I've married the wrong person what do you fucking do we don't give a shit like deal with it that's a new problem

Honestly, I'm sorry about that, and I'm gonna go with the first guy. I believe the past is the past, you know. If he's with you, he's with you. I don't know if he has done anything that has made you feel the way you feel. I don't know your guys' situation. But I don't think it's worth it to throw away your whole marriage over that. I think y'all should come together and talk about it and try to fix the problem before it becomes a bigger issue.