I'm not really sure what you mean by safe space and I don't completely disagree with it, but I also consider the fact that there has to be a dangerous environment that one has to be exposed to in order to build themselves and be able to withstand that so that they could not be living a complacent life.

There's this thing I read online somewhere, I can't refer to it right now but you could look it up and fact check me if you want, but it pretty much said how women are better at building bonds with women by communicating, but men are better at building bonds with men by sharing experiences.