yes this was a tricky one to me too like I kind of get both angles so he's feeling like everybody's got a job and we doing our jobs you know and we gave y'all some jobs to do because y'all belong to us but on the other hand you know baby girl is like not really feeling this like this isn't an interactive like we all work together on the same team type of feel that's all

And then the fact that she's actually sent down expressing how she feels to him And I kind of like how he wasn't just completely dismissive but at the same time don't dismiss how she feels, you know Yeah, God, it's so fucking tricky. I don't know. I feel her a little bit though. Like yeah, we What he's I got kids. I got grandkids. I gotta I got a wife for that like but then what do you do? What do you contribute? Something you had to learn

Just understanding being in a child's place to a certain degree, but she has a voice and clearly she wants to vocalize how she feels so I don't know. It's a way to do these things and I just kind of like that He still was having a conversation with her that part. I feel like I like both on both sides, but You don't learn these lessons until you get older and you have your own kids and know how to navigate your life. So That's it I keep thinking about how to handle that that's just fucking tricky

I hope that after this he took a more proactive role and started helping the grandmother to kind of do things because I Believe that it probably just appeared One-sided where grandma has a whole lot of stuff to do and he doesn't have to do anything You know, and I I do feel like just bringing the money is not enough Like you need to be nurturing also you have your

responsibility to the person that you married to help them feel like you're in it together.