Okay, we see you in control inside. We like them

Yeah, this is a very one-sided mindset because it just sounds like you are going to, hey guys, this is my boyfriend. Let me know if you guys like him. If you don't, I'll leave. Goodbye. He's done. You're not actually giving him a chance to flourish and thrive with you. You're using your friends as validation. That's really bad.

Let's say you guys are getting to an argument and then you go and tell your friends and they're like, oh my god, he sounds like such a red flag. Break up with him. No. Because of an argument? Like not definitely not sweetheart. I definitely think that that's a horrible idea.

But hey, you never know your friends might not be the judge mental types They might say oh well, yeah, he seems cool But if you have a friend's like oh, he seemed cool But I didn't like how he blah blah blah blah blah and then they try to convince you that that's something you got to look out for They just don't want you to be happy. Seriously.