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Hey, guys, I just want to ask, how do you deal with a toxic parent? Because I want to know how, so I can deal with my
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And it is for my safety as well so yeah, I settled it, you know in a nice way and I have decided not to let you know toxicity affect me and any other people.
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in any sort of way so I really appreciate all of your suggestions and yeah this platform really helped me to decide and hopefully I'll be good on my own.
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So right now I'm currently looking for an apartment and yeah hopefully I get to find one soon and yeah thank you guys
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Personally, when I lowered my expectations of my parents, I was able to then accept them for who they are, and that just made it a lot easier to deal with them.
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Um, you really just have to protect yourself and your peace, I guess. I know that that might be an overused saying nowadays, protecting your peace, but there's really something, something to say about it.
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Personally, just don't get involved in whatever their problem is. You know, whatever if they got an addiction or they got their marriage problems, don't get involved. It's their marriage, it's their issue. Unless you can help them. Best thing to do, go into another room and pray God will help you.
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I mean if there's something you can help with, you know, something that was your fault, absolutely. You gotta help, you know, you have to honor your parents, but you know, if they are, you know, it's their own problem, you know, like marriage, don't just don't get involved.
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Praying to God really works, because you know, in the Bible it says to honor your mother and father, and God will give you the necessary steps in order to do it correctly, so you don't get to a toxic point. You know, you respect your parents for what you respect them of, and you know.
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If they're under the influence, the best thing for you to do is to just simply avoid them when they're drunk or high or just know the patterns. Know what they say and know your regular response that works.
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The best thing, if you're having a really bad issue explaining something, try not to get frustrated. It's really hard, but what you really need to do is explain it to them as calmly and as respectfully as you can. And it can work.
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And as frustrating as it is, I would just simply try to seek therapy. Okay, maybe a third party can come in and help them explain the things that they are maybe too ignorant to see.
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Hang out with friends. Also, if you got to get out of there, do the best you can to show that you can leave. Show them that you can really live on your own and go. You know, keep them at a distance, but still love them very much, as much as you can. Show as much love as you can.
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And man, just pray, please sister, just pray. It's so good, you know, we really see, they see more of you, they see better of you. Just try to, you know, get yourself more situated spiritually, it will really help wonders.
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Move out, try to mend your relationship, ask them questions to get a further understanding of them and why they are the way that they are. Show compassion and be understanding that they're just a...
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Yeah, be understanding that they're just a human just like you are. They probably came from an even more fucked up environment than they created for you. And with that, be able to forgive them.
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All I can tell you is, don't live under the same roof as your parents if you can help it. For sure. For sure. That will definitely make a huge difference.
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Well the best way to go about it probably would be to just mute them out kind of pretend like they don't exist and keep doing things that make you genuinely happy.
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I grew up with two toxic parents that fought all the time and honestly being the oldest like that really Affects you in a lot of ways mentally, you know what I mean? so
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So I would play games or I would go out with friends, go play basketball, go to the movies, you know, just to do things to make my life better, easier on me.
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You can do all that or you could simply move out and give them space and give yourself space and whenever the time is right you could confront them.
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Since I still live in their house, I might just try to avoid them, don't really talk to them that much, try to go out as much as I can, stay in my room, listen to music.
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