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I'm not even kidding. This is real. Like I moved out as soon as they were getting so toxic and after like a year or so like their whole personality changed they've gone so much better.
Oh man, I wish I were you man. Um, you know, I didn't take the opportunity to go to college when I was 18 21 now So kind of a little bit stuck here. If you know what I mean can't run away. That's too stupid I don't got the money yet to go anywhere. So I just gotta wait
Well, based on my personal experience, I try to do my best as a duty because I'm the only child. So I do whatever I can to fulfill my responsibilities, but at the same time, I have to set boundaries.
Boundaries as to say like whenever I feel upset about something with them, I tend to get into my own space you know just do what I love and Do what I want to do and be what I am and you
Like just remember to always always remember to focus on yourself as well Be it career or relationships or whatever just focus on yourself Build up whatever it is that you need to build up for yourself
So this is coming from personal experience. I think it's important to stop relying on your parents and start building your own independence. This way you won't feel like a hostage living in a toxic household like that.
Ah, now I understand. Okay. Well, in that case, I agree with Ren's advice. You should run, and run away, and never return. Okay, I'm kidding about the never return part.
How to deal with toxic parents? Period. You don't. You just walk away and get the belt or the chancla or whatever it is that they're going to hit you with.
Just to better understand, like, do you live with your parents or you don't? Are your parents just toxic in general with the things that you're doing or the decision that you're making?
Oh okay that makes sense and I feel like a lot of cultures I feel like the bread winner is always gonna be the oldest and like the decision-maker and that is pretty tough.
It all comes down to it's up to you. You'll have to choose your happiness or your parents' happiness and even though you are the provider you do have to speak with them and let them know your thoughts.
And then plan a strategy on you know how to But it's always good on Leaving things at good terms with your parents and then your parents will now have to decide to like You get up and start providing for themselves as well
It sounds really selfish but your parents were the ones that are supposed to take care of you until you leave or until you go out into the new world. But it's holding you back kind of.
It's really hard but I think you really need to build strong personal boundaries and accept your parents for who they are. No demand on them and don't give them, don't sacrifice what you are not ready to sacrifice.
First of all, I'm proud of you for putting this out there and for saying something that's not easy. Me personally, I have disowned all of my family, my parents, my siblings, everybody. If something is toxic for you, it needs to go.
Now I know this is easier said than done because some people are still living with their parents or are minors. In that case, you just have to wait until you're able to leave that toxic environment. But just because somebody birthed you does not mean that they can disrespect you. That's so important.
It's important to remember that them giving you a roof or clothing or food that is basics, you don't need to applaud them for that basic behavior because they had you, okay? You didn't ask to be here, they put you here. So that's just basic.
I grew up with narcissistic family members and abusive family members. So it's important that whenever they make you feel upset, not to have an emotional reaction to that, because that's what they're looking for. They're looking to upset you. So learn how to calm yourself and those type of hearts.
Hey guys, thank you so much for all of your advices and suggestions. I have decided that I will be leaving the nest for my mental health and for my mental health.