People pleasers are someone who wants people attention or just someone who wants to be loved but it's hard when they will never like you no matter what you do. So what's the point of even trying to be someone you're not and you could just be yourself Even if you know they won't like you. There's no point because every time you change yourself for them, they still don't like you. What does that say for yourself? A liar? No. But the more you change yourself, the more you truly lose yourself. Why not just be yourself?