The first thing that I had to realize about myself that somebody actually told me was that sometimes they don't think that I am as invested into other peoples lives as I think I am and it's because I don't ask a lot of questions I just wait for people to kind of tell me how they're feeling and then I can go off of that and that was something that I had to change and I had to learn that in order for others to feel like I care about them equally There's more effort that needs to be had in a conversation I need to ask questions I need to even seem like I'm more invested even if I feel like I'm coming across that way it's always about what another person perceives as well and that was a big change that I had to have on myself to not come off as self-centered and selfish

Uh, something someone told me that didn't realize about myself... That I'm too nice... And my friend told me that I was too nice to people, you need to stand up. Yeah, huh?