So on dating sites how do you know when you're about to get scammed and I mean like catfish and even like extorted for money and like I've seen a lot of those situations happened like for instance my mom was on this dating app and plenty of fish and she like would be talking to the guys and then we seem really normal and then all of a sudden like they just end up asking her for money within like a few days like it always be like oh I'm working out of out of the country and like I'm waiting on my paycheck but something something something something or another one it was like he's always a widow that's a red flag for me like when they're like oh I'm a widow and they were like how does a pity party at first and then they end up trying to extort you for money like all the time I feel Luckily my mom is smart and she's like you and immediately but it seems always pop up so like what are the signs of like about to get scammed on dating apps