I did not have a relationship with anybody of any sorts when I hit 18. It was older than me, although I've been an old soul always, so I was more mature from my age. But no, never harder than your body, too much shoulder. I mean, I think it was always maybe like two to three years, but even then it was still kind of like back in the day, man. the day, man, I was kind of frowned upon to just deal with anybody that was younger than you.