he's waiting for you to submit and be intimate with him, he may be having sex with a woman to fulfill his urges, his needs or whatever, but if he respects you enough to wait and not force himself upon you, not beg and plead and try to push his, he'll be pushing and controlling, and you decide to give it to him and you end up in a long-term relationship, hey at least you waited until you were ready and you weren't forced or pressured, but you would also have to consider who he's been with before you and during you and whether or not he's been tested and you should should know his status at all times.