I honestly refuse to subscribe that a love that is for you is meant to be very much treacherous, very much. We've been through the struggle, we went through so many highs and lows, I just, I just don't want to subscribe to that, I don't know if it's just me, but I don't believe that a love that is for you needs to contain all of that, not saying that it be easy but I just don't like the glamourization of struggling to find the one like going through trials and trials and tribulations just to be with that person I think I think you can have love that is easy I feel like you can have love that moves with so much ease and it doesn't it doesn't have to be all of that but let me know your thoughts guys let me know if you think I'm wrong I'm I'm right, what do you think?