What are some red flags that you guys noticed in the beginning of dating someone like some red flags that are non-negotiable or ones that you're like I don't know this might be a failure if I keep this going share with me

A nonnegotiable is when they have controlling behavior and I try to control what you do

Some red flags for me are definitely people that like have no goals in life so if you're talking to them and like they just don't really aspire to be anywhere like that stuff for your red flag

Oh I'd probably say when someone is rude people on the public if you go on a date and then she or he is rude to the waiter waitress you know just being rude and just being dirty with people in public I think it's the first red flag I think or being like I know you're just rude and like maybe obsessed with themselves and having an entitlement and cockiness I don't know I don't like you

So many that I can't say in at 10/ second 22nd one minute soundbite